My sister and I are a year apart. Now we live about 20 minutes away from each other. That hasn't been the case for over 50 years. After a childhood at home with our parents, we went our separate ways when she got married at age 19, and I went to college. As children, we were very close. I actually have an ancient memory of us in separate cribs in the same room. Most of our childhood together we were in separate bedrooms. Mine was what would be called a den, and she occupied a small bedroom. Growing up, we would knock on the wall separating our rooms. We'd communicate things like are you going to get up now? Do you want to play? and Are you going to go back to sleep. They were simple knocking patterns. We even incorporated part of the theme from the TV show Dragnet to indicate, "Go away, I'm not interested." All that died out as we matured from 5 year olds to kids about 9 or 10. Today, however, when I u...
If you look at the official state of the relations that the US has with the country of Vietnam, the State Department says, The United States supports a strong, prosperous, independent, and resilient Vietnam that contributes to regional and international security; engages in mutually beneficial trade relations; respects human rights and the rule of law; and is resilient in the face of climate and energy-related challenges. The United States and Vietnam are trusted partners with a friendship grounded in mutual respect that has developed since the normalization of diplomatic relations in 1995. This rosy outlook despite the brutal history of the US involvement in the Vietnam War from about 1963-73. I wonder how many of the 58,000 American dead, and 3.8 million Vietnamese dead could have imagined it would be so peaceful 60 years later? How would they respond to the fact that the US and Vietnam are such good trading partners. That the two cultures are i...