My class and I were once discussing movies. When I mentioned that I'd recently seen a film under discussion, someone asked, "Who'd you see it with." When I said that I'd gone by myself, they were incredulous. "What," I said, "You've never gone to a movie by yourself?" They hadn't. But then I realized that it just might be a matter of age. What they saw as abnormal, if not a complete oddity, becomes less so as one ages. In fact, I'd wager that all these years later, most of them have had the experience. Going somewhere by yourself became the topic the other day as I chatted with a small circle of friends. One shared that she seems more reluctant to go somewhere by herself since the pandemic and resultant lockdown. "I got halfway there and then almost turned back," said another friend when explaining a trip to a specialty grocery store she recently made. We all seemed to agree that a slight case of agoraphobia se...
Personal observations of one writer. Frequent references to pop culture, blues music and lifetime truths.