Wednesday, March 8, 2017
Egg Salad TV
My introduction to Leonard was abrupt. It was the day I came to the home for an interview. Lunch time. A few of us potential "counselors" were waiting to be interviewed in the living room of the large house that was home to the offices and director of the St. George Homes. The boys that were placed in two other nearby homes came to this home for lunch. They were in an adjoining room watching cartoons when a fight broke out. A thud; someone hit the floor. One of the counselors jumped up and opened two sliding doors. I followed. When he pulled one larger kid off a smaller one I went over to what appeared to be the victim. He was curled in a ball and crying. I bent down and tried to roll him over to see if he was hurt. That's when I caught a fist in the mouth. He greeted me with a punch. Leonard. Angry Leonard. Extremely angry Leonard. Working with emotionally disturbed teenagers required knowledge that I did not possess. Not at that point.
A day, any day was filled with lashing out, fist fights, and violent actions for Leonard. He'd snap over everyday things. Living with 5 others with similar issues truly tested his ability to change or gain any insight. Still we tried. There were group outings, activities filled with music and artistic endeavors. There was free time to ride bicycles, there were football games and camping trips. Leonard and his anger attended all. Rarely was there no incident to set him off. Even when things were going well you could always count on Leonard or one of his roommates to calmly walk into a room where 4 kids were quietly watching TV and change the channel. No talk. Just action. On one occasion Leonard grabbed one kid's egg salad sandwich and rubbed it all over the TV screen. Fight ensued.
Yet, Leonard could be a little boy. I've seen that quality in some very violent adolescents. Regression? Arrested development? Probably. One day I tried to find some background information on Leonard. Through a combination of other counselors and a social worker associated with his placement I learned that Leonard had 8 placements in his first 12 years. He was part Mexican, part Apache Indian. He had a twin brother. Apparently the social worker who knew his brother was overjoyed that he had finally expressed some anger. His personality was the complete opposite of Leonard's. The brother had told someone to fuck off and that was perceived as progress. I do not know if Leonard and his brother were born under the sign of Gemini.